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Not He or She, I'm Me - Hardcover

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by A. M. Wild (Author), Kah Yangni (Illustrator)

A Stonewall Book Award Honor Book

"The warmth of everyday gender euphoria is burnished to brilliant radiance" (BCCB, starred review) in this joyous picture book about a day in the life of a non-binary child.

A child gets ready for a wonderful day. They gleefully get dressed, hug their parents, go to school, and play with friends. All the while, unapologetically reminding themselves that they are and can only be themselves.

The non-binary experience is brightly illustrated as we follow our main character through their typical day. The story's bouncy and fun refrain reminds all readers of gender neutral pronouns and affirms the identities of non-binary children--encouraging readers to practice empathy for themselves and others.

Author Biography

A.M. Wild is a queer, nonbinary writer of children's books, poetry, and creative non-fiction. They look within and to their communities for fresh inspiration. Each project they work on is a unique reflection of the world as they see it or dream it could be.

Kah Yangni is an illustrator living in Philadelphia, PA. They make heartfelt art about justice, queerness, and joy. Kah's artistic mission is to heal themself and others by making art that focuses on radical optimism, and the power we have to make the world a better place.
Number of Pages: 32
Dimensions: 0.4 x 9.1 x 9.3 IN
Illustrated: Yes
Publication Date: October 17, 2023
Award: Stonewall Book Award (2024)
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Quiz Name: Not He or She, I'm Me
Interest Level: Lower Grades, K-3
Reading Level: 1.6
Point Value: 0.5

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